Arduino Ethernet Shield + phpmyadmin

I started a project where my main goal was to make a LED glows when he detects a certain value on my database. I already work with sql, so my main goal was to connect my ethernet shield to my online database. But I’m struggling with the connection. I tryed several times, but I can’t connect to my database. Someone can help me?

I am using the MySQL_Connector_Arduino Library.

#include <Ethernet.h>
#include <MySQL_Connection.h>

byte mac_addr[] = { 0xDE, 0xAD, 0xBE, 0xEF, 0xFE, 0xED };

IPAddress server_addr(10,0,1,35);  // IP of the MySQL *server* here
char user[] = "root";              // MySQL user login username
char password[] = "secret";        // MySQL user login password

EthernetClient client;
MySQL_Connection conn((Client *)&client);

void setup() {
  Serial.begin(115200);
  while (!Serial); // wait for serial port to connect
  Ethernet.begin(mac_addr);
  Serial.println("Connecting...");
  if (conn.connect(server_addr, 3306, user, password)) {
    delay(1000);
    // You would add your code here to run a query once on startup.
  }
  else
    Serial.println("Connection failed.");
  conn.close();
}

void loop() {
}

Thks
Guilherme